What is your story? It’s your decisions and actions.
I am only half way through one of the best books I have come across in some time. It is called I love you more than my dog by Jeanne Bliss. Jeanne discussed five key decisions that drive customer loyalty and I would even say brand love and these decisions I think are easier to make when you are a small business so why not take the advantage to leverage them.
Here they are:
1. Decide to Believe: Beloved companies trust their employees and their customers. An example that I love that Jeanne explains in her book is the Grameen Bank which loans money to impoverished people in Bangladesh so that they could buy materials to make bamboo furniture back in 1974. The village people repaid every cent as it was their honour at stake. In 2008 the bank has over 7.8 million borrowers, with a repayment rate of 99%. This belief in people has changed their lives. Jeanne makes the point that beloved companies understand that most people want to do the right thing. “I believe you, I trust you”, goes along way for your customers and your employees.
2. Decide with Clarity of Purpose: Companies who have a compelling clear promise to their customer are rewarded with loyalty and love from their customers. Nudie juice makes no secret of their multicultural juice and in-fact they use it as a point of differentiation in their brand personality and customers love them because of their honesty and sense of humour.
Decide to be Real: What you see is what you get. This transparency, this openness, and authenticity is a rare trait. It is not easy and it takes guts, but fake it and customers can see it, feel it and smell it. Companies that are real talk to their customers, really listen and take action. They make genuine offers and earn their customers trust. As Jeanne states, “they blend their personalities with their business decisions.” A manager that models real behaviour gives you the okay to be “real”. There is no better feeling than to say, “you are okay as you are, just be you” and customers are staying with this to businesses they trust because they are authentic. This behaviour is embedded in your values and your behaviours. If you heard one of your employees talking about your customers would you be proud of their conversation or cringe? Restaurants are incorporating open kitchens as a way to show their customers that there is nothing to hide.
Decide to be There: Beloved companies are “there” by giving their customers what they want. They listen, they want to serve. To do things the way their customer wants, to rethink things, to make the experience the best it can be, makes companies loved. These companies don’t go the extra mile because they can, they do it because they want to. They live their company through the eyes of their customers and organically grow to delight them. They celebrate a culture that looks to go the extra mile for customers and rewards employees for embracing this philosophy visibly. Threadless is a great example of a company that started as a community of artists and graphic designers designing t-shirts online. Customers have embraced the concept and taken it a step further to be involved in the design process. Threadless.com customers having a say in what got sold has expanded the business to over 700,000 members.
Decide to Say Sorry: being able to eat your words and be humble about it is something that customers appreciate. Everyone has to say sorry at some point but it is how companies take responsibility for actions that really tells customers about their brand. Companies that are accountable and do everything possible to earn back their customers, sets them apart and makes us love them even more in some cases. Again being sincere, taking responsibility and trying to make things better is the way great companies have an ongoing relationship with their customers and employees. Sometimes companies come undone and shown their true colours when everything goes wrong for the customer and instead of been given the opportunity to say sorry and make amends, lose the customer and their friends for life.
My takeaway tips for small businesses.
1. Decision to believe – How much do we know about our customers, how do we interact? How do we encourage our employees to share their insights? Do we select our employees based on their values or skill-sets?
2. Decision Clarity of Purpose -What is our unique experience and brand promise and do we need to check-in and refresh it? What is our vibe, what steers our decisions? What do we want our customers to remember about us after we say goodbye?
3. Decision to be Real – Do we walk in our customers and employee shoes? Would our customers want to know us after reading our emails, letters, invoices? What is our tone? Behind the scenes, how do our people talk about our customers? Do customers want to talk to us? Does everyone have permission to do what it takes, to find the right solution for each situation?
4.Decision to be There - Do your customers ask, where else could I have got this? Let;s look at this from the customer’s point of view. Do we earn the right to their business? Do they have a seat at our table? Is our experience memorable? Do we collaborate as a team and jump a fence to serve the customer?
5. Decision to say Sorry - Do we take accountability for our mistakes and take care of our customers for life? Do we fess up? Do we have it in our DNA to say sorry and mean it? Does our culture stick when things are tough? Are we proactive and put in place a recovery plan to “wow” our customers again? Do we learn, adjust and grow from our mistakes?
I agree with Jeanne in that the choice is yours. How you run your business and the decisions you make every day tell your story to your customers and employees. Be active, deliberate and take the lead. Do the customer audit from Jeanne site and see how you stack up!

















